Thoughts on having children: on one hand you have less personal time and higher expenditure; on the other hand you are building a heritage of love.
Someone once said, the amount of money you earn will not count at your deathbed; what matters is the people that are gathered at your deathbed. This brings to point the importance of building quality relationships with family and friends, rather than just accumulating wealth for personal achievement and satisfaction. Everything in life is a trade off. You lose something, you gain something.
You lose time, you gain achievement.
You lose energy, you gain fitness.
You lose devotion, you gain love.
You lose procrastination, you gain discipline.
You lose reluctance, you gain commitment.
You lose personal agendas, you gain friends.
You lose personal freedom, you gain children. And children are a blessing from the Lord. Happy is the man who has a quiver full of them!