From the book "Pastors At Risk":
Consider what pastors think about work, home, and lifestyles as reported in a recent survey conducted by Leadership magazine:
1) 94% feel pressured to have an ideal family;
2) The top 6 problems in clergy marriages are:
Consider what pastors think about work, home, and lifestyles as reported in a recent survey conducted by Leadership magazine:
1) 94% feel pressured to have an ideal family;
2) The top 6 problems in clergy marriages are:
- 81%, insufficient time;
- 71%, use of money;
- 70%, income level;
- 64%, communication difficulties;
- 63%, congregational expectations; and
- 57%, differences over leisure;
3) 24% have received or are receiving marital counseling;
4) 33% of pastors are dissatisfied with the level of sexual intimacy in their marriages; and pastors report 16% of their spouses are dissatisfied, which 69% blame on their busy schedule, 54% on their spouse's schedule, and 35% on frequent night church meetings;
5) 22% seek supplemental income to make ends meet;
6) 28% feel current compensation is inadequate;
7) 69% of the spouses work outside the home to make ends meet;
8) 67% of the pastors feel positive about their spouses working outside their home;
9) 9% of clergy have had extramarital affairs;
10) 19% have had inappropriate sexual contact with another person other than their spouse;
11) 55% of clergy have no one with whom they can discuss their sexual temptation.
Now who says that life is a bed of roses for the spiritual? Even pastors have it tough in their lives.
May you find comfort in knowing that the most imperfect of lives can love & serve God fervently, if only one is willing.
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